Naughty vs Nice: A Christian Podcast

BONUS: Questions on Leadership and Marital Abuse: Are They Protecting or Enabling?

Church Leadership and Marital Abuse: Are They Protecting or Enabling?
🚨 Is the church failing victims of marital abuse? Too often, Christian leadership mishandles divorce and abuse, prioritizing reconciliation over safety and forgiveness over accountability. In this episode of Naughty vs Nice: A Christian Podcast, Todd and Laura dive deep into how pastors, elders, and church leaders respond to abuse and divorce—and where they get it dangerously wrong.
💡 Key Questions We Tackle:✅ Why do so many abusers hold leadership positions in churches?✅ How does false repentance manipulate church decisions?✅ Why does the church pressure victims rather than holding abusers accountable?✅ What does biblical justice really look like in cases of abuse and divorce?✅ How can church leaders truly support survivors instead of enabling harm?
If you've ever questioned how the church handles abusive marriages, or if you've been pushed toward reconciliationinstead of safety, this episode is for you. It's time to challenge unbiblical church culture and demand real change.
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🎙️ Keywords: Christian podcast, biblical leadership, elder qualifications, spiritual transformation, false doctrine, cultural Christianity, discipleship, church restoration, the occult in Christianity, biblical truth.

33: Divorce in the Church (Part 5): How Church Leadership Fails the Abused

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 5): How Church Leadership Fails the Abused" 🎙️
When abuse happens in a marriage, the church should be a place of refuge—but too often, it protects its image over its people. Many pastors and elders pressure the healthier spouse to "fix things" while refusing to hold abusers accountable. Why? Because it’s easier to force reconciliation than to confront the hard truth.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How church leaders shift blame onto victims instead of confronting abusers✅ Why pastors often pressure the abused to “make it work” for the sake of numbers✅ The psychological and spiritual damage caused by mishandling divorce cases✅ What the Bible actually says about protecting the vulnerable✅ How churches can stop enabling abuse and start standing for truth
✨ If you've ever felt abandoned by the church during a difficult marriage, this episode will give you clarity, validation, and biblical truth.
🎧 Listen now and uncover the reality of how leadership fails victims of abuse.
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References: Matthew, John, Romans, Hebrews, Revelation, Thessalonians, Mike Ratliff, The Compromised Church,  Netflix Gabby Petito Documentary*
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32: Divorce in the Church (Part 4 Final): Recognizing Abusive Behaviors in Men & Women

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 4): Recognizing Abusive Behaviors in Men & Women (Final)" 🎙️
Abuse often goes unnoticed or excused, especially in Christian communities. In this final part of our deep dive into abusive behaviors, Todd and Laura expose how abusers manipulate, justify, and twist situations to maintain control—and how the church sometimes enables it.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How abusers justify toxic behaviors and shift blame✅ Why church culture often defends the abuser instead of the victim✅ The red flags of emotional, spiritual, and psychological abuse✅ Why both men and women can be abusive—and how to recognize it✅ What the Bible actually teaches about confronting abusive people
✨ If you've ever been in a toxic relationship or wondered how to recognize manipulative behaviors, this episode is a must-listen.
🎧 Listen now and learn how to discern, confront, and break free from abuse.
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31: Divorce in the Church (Part 4): Recognizing Abusive Behaviors in Men & Women

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 4): Recognizing Abusive Behaviors in Men & Women" 🎙️
How do you recognize abusive behaviors before they escalate? Many people assume abuse is only physical, but emotional, psychological, and spiritual abuse are just as destructive. In this episode, Todd and Laura break down the warning signs of abusive men and women, exposing the behaviors that often go unnoticed or are excused in church culture.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How rage, control, and manipulation show up in abusive relationships✅ The subtle behaviors of abusive men and women that people overlook✅ Why churches often ignore or enable abusers instead of protecting victims✅ The psychological tactics abusers use to isolate and control their partners✅ What the Bible actually says about dealing with abuse in marriage
✨ If you've ever questioned whether certain behaviors were “normal” or felt trapped in an unhealthy marriage, this episode will bring clarity and truth.
🎧 Listen now and learn how to recognize the signs of abuse—before it’s too late.
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REFERENCES: Sociopath Next Door; Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist; A Beautiful, Terrible Thing; 30 Covert Emotional Manipulation Tactics; 
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BONUS: Divorce in the Church: More Tough Questions, Biblical Answers

🔎 "Divorce in the Church: More Tough Questions, Biblical Answers" 🎙️
Still have unanswered questions about divorce and what the Bible really says? You're not alone. In this episode, we tackle more listener-submitted questions about divorce, remarriage, abuse, and the church’s role in it all. If you've ever felt trapped between church tradition and biblical truth, this episode is for you.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Does God really condemn divorced people?✅ What if the church pressures someone to stay in an abusive marriage?✅ Does remarriage count as adultery?✅ What does the Bible actually say about second marriages?✅ How should the church support divorced believers instead of shaming them?
✨ If you've been wrestling with these questions, it's time to get real biblical answers.
🎧 Listen now and find clarity on one of the most misunderstood topics in the church!
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30: Divorce in the Church (Part 3): What Jesus & Paul Really Taught—and Why It Matters

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 3): What Jesus & Paul Really Taught—and Why It Matters" 🎙️
What did Jesus and Paul actually teach about divorce—and have churches been misapplying their words? In this episode, we break down the historical and cultural context behind their teachings, separating biblical truth from modern church distortions. If you've ever been told "God hates divorce" without a full explanation, this episode is for you.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ What Jesus' words on divorce really meant in His cultural context✅ How Paul’s teachings expand on Jesus' words and protect the vulnerable✅ The difference between biblical marriage and cultural expectations✅ Why abusive and unfaithful spouses were never meant to be protected by the church✅ How the church must shift from condemning divorce to protecting the oppressed
✨ If you've ever wrestled with what the Bible actually says about divorce, this episode will challenge and encourage you.
🎧 Listen now to uncover the truth about Jesus and Paul’s teachings on divorce!
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References: Matthew 19, 1 Corinthians 7; Exodus 21; John 4; Rabbi Hillel; Rabbi Shammai; Strong's 2202 - Pornea; Diane Langberg, When the Church Harms God's People; David Instone-Brewer, Divorce and Remarriage in the Church; Diane Langberg, Redeeming Power; 

BONUS: Divorce in the Church: Answering Your Toughest Questions

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 2): Answering Your Toughest Questions" 🎙️
Divorce is one of the most misunderstood and misrepresented topics in the church. In this special Q&A episode, we answer your toughest, most pressing questions about what the Bible really says, how churches handle divorce, and how to navigate abusive or unhealthy marriages with biblical wisdom.
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ Does God really hate divorce, or is that a misinterpretation?✅ What should a Christian do if they feel trapped in an abusive marriage?✅ How do churches get divorce so wrong—and what needs to change?✅ What does the Bible actually teach about remarriage after divorce?✅ How can the church better support those going through divorce instead of shaming them?
✨ If you've ever wrestled with these questions or felt stuck between church culture and biblical truth, this episode is for you!
🎧 Listen now to hear real answers to real questions!
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29: When the Church Turns a Blind Eye: How the Bible Protects Women

🔎 "Divorce in the Church (Part 2): How the Bible Protects the Vulnerable" 🎙️
What happens when the church becomes a barrier instead of a refuge for those in dangerous marriages? Too often, women and the vulnerable are pressured to stay in abusive situations because of misapplied scripture and church teachings. But what does the Bible actually say about divorce, safety, and God's heart for the oppressed?
🚨 In This Episode, We Cover:✅ How the church has misused divorce as a weapon instead of a safeguard✅ What the Bible says about divorce, protection, and God’s justice✅ The difference between cultural Christianity and biblical truth✅ Why God allows divorce for the hard-heartedness of men—not to punish the vulnerable✅ How the church can become a voice of protection instead of condemnation
✨ If you've ever been told "God hates divorce" without understanding the full biblical context, this episode will challenge and encourage you.
🎧 Listen now and discover how scripture actually defends those seeking freedom!
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References: Divorce and Remarriage by David Instone Brewer, 
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